

You always need to be the one in control.
You focus on him fixing, changing, and coaching your partner.
You sabotage things and accidentally push him away.
You constantly question the relationship.
You give a lot and recieve little in return and feel resentful.
You're no longer attracted to him, even if he shows up a lot.
You feel emotionally abandoned when he chooses himself.
You wonder if this is all there is in relationships...

You always need to be the one in control.
You focus on him fixing, changing, and coaching your partner.
You sabotage things and accidentally push him away.
You constantly question the relationship.
You give a lot and recieve little in return and feel resentful.
You're no longer attracted to him, even if he shows up a lot.
You feel emotionally abandoned when he chooses himself.
You wonder if this is all there is in relationships...



IN A RELATIONSHIP

You feel unfulfilled, trying to fix or change your partner into being who you want him to be but end up feeling resentful and exhausted.
IN DATING

You change who you are to get his attention, you keep attracting men who don’t want to commit, who feel
distant and unfulfilling.
IN A RELATIONSHIP

You feel unfulfilled, trying to fix or change your partner into being who you want him to be but end up feeling resentful and exhausted.
IN DATING

You change who you are to get his attention, you keep attracting men who don’t want to commit, who feel
distant and unfulfilling.



Tell the difference between intuition and activation.
Communicate instead of test.
Recieve without micromanaging.
Rest without believing everything will fall apart.
Let your partner take responsibility.
Stop treating every uncomfortable moment like evidence that the relationship is wrong.
Remain connected to yourself during conflict.
Experience your partnership as support rather more another responsibility.
And ultimately: Feel safe in love.

Tell the difference between intuition and activation.
Communicate instead of test.
Recieve without micromanaging.
Rest without believing everything will fall apart.
Let your partner take responsibility.
Stop treating every uncomfortable moment like evidence that the relationship is wrong.
Remain connected to yourself during conflict.
Experience your partnership as support rather more another responsibility.
And ultimately: Feel safe in love.






16 Weekly Pod (group of 5 max) Live 1 Hour Coaching Calls
16 Weekly Live 1 Hour Group Coaching Calls (Yes, you have access to 2 coaching calls a week!)
12 Module Online Program of Weekly Trainings and Practices.
-12 Weekly Trainings
-12 Weekly 20-30 Minute Practices
-12 Weekly 5-10 Minute Practices
A Digital Practice Tracker & Journal
Specialized Attachment, Relationship & Intimacy Coaches
Telegram Chat Support
Community Of Like-minded Women
Pay In Full– $3900
-OR-
4 payments of $1,077
*need more payment options?
Book a call to chat with a team member.
You’re successful everywhere else, but relationships bring out a different version of you.
You overthink, spiral, pull away, or seek reassurance fast.
You’re tired of repeating the same relationship patterns.
You’ve done the inner work, but still don’t feel different.
You’re ready to look at your role and actually change the dynamic.
You want Jessie to tell you your partner is the problem.
You’re looking for more information without applying it.
You’re unwilling to examine your own patterns.
You want a quick fix without doing deeper work.
You’re not ready to take responsibility for how you show up in love.
You’re successful everywhere else, but relationships bring out a different version of you.
You overthink, spiral, pull away, or seek reassurance fast.
You’re tired of repeating the same relationship patterns.
You’ve done the inner work, but still don’t feel different.
You’re ready to look at your role and actually change the dynamic.
You're ready to take action and make real day-to-day changes.
You want Jessie to tell you your partner is the problem.
You’re looking for more information without applying it.
You’re unwilling to examine your own patterns.
You want a quick fix without doing deeper work.
You’re not ready to take responsibility for how you show up in love.
You're not willing to be guided.



16 Weekly Pod ( group of 5 max ) Live 1 Hour Coaching Calls
16 Weekly Live 1 Hour Group Coaching Calls ( Yes, you have access to 2 coaching calls a week! )
12 Module Online Program of Weekly Trainings and Practices.
-12 Weekly Trainings
-12 Weekly 20-30 Minute Practices
-12 Weekly 5-10 Minute Practices
A Digital Practice Tracker & Journal
Specialized Attachment, Relationship & Intimacy Coaches
Telegram Chat Support
Community Of Like-minded Women
16 Weekly Pod ( group of 5 max ) Live 1 Hour Coaching Calls
16 Weekly Live 1 Hour Group Coaching Calls ( Yes, you have access to 2 coaching calls a week! )
12 Module Online Program of Weekly Trainings and Practices.
-12 Weekly Trainings
-12 Weekly 20-30 Minute Practices
-12 Weekly 5-10 Minute Practices
A Digital Practice Tracker & Journal
Specialized Attachment, Relationship & Intimacy Coaches
Telegram Chat Support
Community Of Like-minded Women

Secure Woman is for women who have been in self-development for years, but are still struggling with protective mechanisms and coping mechanisms in relationships. Whether you’re chronically overthinking in love, attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or constantly questioning if you’re “too much” or “not enough”—this program will guide you back to emotional safety, confidence, and clarity.
We have 2 individual weekly calls; one of them is a small group call where we will gather your information beforehand and align it with your time zone to assure you can attend the call. The second weekly call is with everyone in the course and it is on Thursdays at 10am EST.
Not at all. This work is powerful whether you’re single, dating, or partnered. The tools and inner healing you’ll do are designed to transform how you relate to yourself and others—so you can stop repeating painful patterns and start attracting (or creating) a secure, nourishing relationship.
That’s totally okay. This work is about your healing, your patterns, and your inner safety. As you shift how you show up—how you express, respond, and relate—your relationships naturally begin to reflect that change. One empowered person can shift a whole dynamic.
Once you enroll, you will recieve an email with your start date. We launch a pod of 5 people at a time, which can take 2-4 weeks of wait time before your group starts. Once you pay, you'll get an email with a form so we can gather your time zone and extra information. The call time for your smaller group will be determined and sent to you 1 week before your group begins. On your personalized start date, you'll gain access to the online course and move through it on a weekly basis with your group and your coach.
Most women spend 1-2 hours on the material and do multiple practices every week.
A week in Secure Woman looks like:
-2–60 minute coaching calls.
-1–30 minute training to watch on your own time.
-1–20 minute practice to do on your own time.
-3–5-10 minute integration practices to do on your own time.
-You have 4 integration weeks where no new work is delivered, so you can catch up.
The program does not work if you do not do the practices; the purpose of nervous system work is to feel new feelings consistently in order to deeply rewire your current set point.
Secure Woman is a 4-month coaching experience with an investment of $3,900. Payment plan options are available. If you’re not sure which option is best for you, book a call and we’ll walk through it together.
Yes, flexible payment options are available at checkout so this work can be as accessible as possible.
All the practices are based on IFS ( Internal Family Systems), Somatic Parts Work. What Secure Woman teaches you how to do is heal your wounded and protective parts so you can be your true self. The practices look like dynamic meditations where you're guided to connect with unconscious stories and behaviours by closing your eyes and going into your body. Even if you're someone who feels completely numb and has no idea how to be in your body, you will learn how to with our method and leave completely changed.
No, all enrollments are final. That's why our call before you join matters so much. We make sure Secure Woman is the right fit before you commit, so you can say yes with confidence.
Once you're in, you get everything you need to succeed: weekly group coaching calls, recordings of every session, and the course modules. Your part is showing up and practicing what you learn. Women who do that get results, and to this day, not one has been let down by this work.
What you take with you lasts well beyond the four months. You'll learn how to calm your nervous system when anxiety hits, how to ask for what you need without over-explaining, and how to stay grounded when he pulls away. You'll use these tools for the rest of your life.

I don’t just teach secure attachment. I had to learn how to become secure in love myself.
I’m a certified, trauma-informed relationship and secure attachment coach with nearly a decade of experience helping high-achieving women transform the way they experience themselves and love.
I became incredibly good at being strong, independent and capable.
Then I found an incredible partner and realized success had never taught me how to feel safe being loved.
I still overthought. Controlled. Criticized. Questioned. Protected.
Healing my own attachment patterns changed everything.
Today, I’m a wife, mother to twin girls and coach living inside the kind of partnership I once didn’t know how to receive.
Over the years, I’ve supported thousands of women through transformational coaching and am certified through Layla Martin’s VITA™ Coaching Program, with additional experience supporting 250+ women through eight Ladder to Bliss cohorts alongside Bibi Brzozka.
Secure Woman was born from the pattern I kept seeing over and over:
Women who had done so much work on themselves but still didn’t feel safe in love.
I’m not here to tell you what text to send or how to become a different woman.
I’m here to help you become so anchored in yourself that you can trust your own voice, receive love, and finally let it all the way in.
For more questions, please email us at [email protected]